I'm having the exact same problem. What is the lead time your dealer gave you for the APIM module? I haven't taken my truck in yet. I was hoping there would be an OTA update that would fix this, but from the several thread on this issue, it doesn't sound like there will be.
I was able to order my F150 last November from Liberty Ford of Brunswick at invoice and we split holdback. No clue if they'd still be willing to do that kind of deal though.
I also have a blend date of 2/5. This morning my tracker showed a production date of 2/9 with an estimated delivery of 3/15. Since then, those dates have disappeared and reappeared a couple of times on the tracker. But either way I think mine was either built yesterday or is being built today...