If it's helpful, I ended up moving to Mahwah Ford in NJ. I called first to verify they aren't charging ADM and then placed my order after transferring - they appear to have accepted my wave 3 invite at MSRP.
For anyone who's had the dealer add surprise ADM, was that reflected in the order sheet when you placed the order online? I was seeing $2500 over MSRP with Wayne Ford (NJ) and I moved to Mahwah Ford (NJ) and now it shows MSRP online. I'm curious if anyone's seeing that get changed after the fact.
We can take Wayne Ford in NJ off the no ADM list - went to order today and they are now charging $2500, contrary to their e-mail before. I called them to ask about it and was told that things have changed since October and they don't know of any dealers not charging ADM.
I am moving to Mahwah...
9:42 PM confirmation email, reservation ID 108162**
#6 at Chapman. Given the news from them today (they are expecting less than five Lightnings for 2022), I may have to go back to my original dealer and hope they didn't prioritize.