For another datapoint - my 2025 KR showed the correct photo (with the tow mirrors), but it wasn't listed in the vehicle details like your situation. It was delivered correctly to the dealership with tow mirrors.
My 2025 KR (currently waiting for me to pick up from Granger) went via rail on Norfolk Southern to Kansas City, then was offloaded at Voltz for truck carrier pickup, then picked up by carrier and driven to Granger in a day.
It looks like KC is as far west that Norfolk Southern goes - so I'm not...
Grabbed photos from dealer sites taken outside for each color. I feel like I lucked out by choosing Carbonized Gray - although I completely agree with the general sentiment of "WTF was Ford thinking with Marsh Gray"